Just as all people are unique, so are the characteristics of their relationships with others. There is no one-size-fits- all answer to this increasingly common dilemma.
One of my friend asked me today,
Do u think, your best friend can be yours true lover ???
This question always puts me in a dilemma...One part of my heart says, you can't mixed friendship with love. And other part of heart says, friendship is the beginning of love.So how will I know that, it is love or some thing else..it can be a crush too. Because if you are a good friend ,you know every thing about her/him. You share yours deepest secret with them ...they know every things about you ,and still love you the same.For me friendship is a very pure relationship. We don't choose ours parent,we don't choose ours relatives ,And not even ours teacher.but we definitely choose ours friends according to ours liking.With friends we can shares ours those feeling ,which we can't share with ours lover or even parents. It is the greatest bonding which makes two unknown people with different culture, view ,different mind-set, but still bind them together with common feeling. So I am very confussed ,because love has no proper definition,no rules ,no boundaries. I have a question for all the people ,who is reading this:
If you have been in this kind of situation,what you had done?? How will you confront to yours friend.
Often what I hear from people in this position is that they fear "ruining the friendship" if they discuss their feelings honestly. While this is a very understandable concern, it isn't well thought out. It is emotional, not rational.you can't go back..
So what you think ,I am eagerly waiting for your's reply. Ooh I forget to tell you that ,this is my first blog. Hope you people liked it .Send me suggestion to improved it..
